The most common mistakes when buying an engagement ring – and how to avoid them

A ring for life – and the fear of doing something wrong


The proposal is imminent. You're ready to ask the most important question of your life – but suddenly doubts arise: Which ring is the right one? What if I don't like it? What if I choose the wrong size?


Don't worry—these thoughts are completely normal . Buying an engagement ring is emotional, personal, and, for many, a completely new experience. This is precisely why typical mistakes often occur—but they are avoidable.


In this article, we'll show you the most common mistakes when buying a ring – and give you concrete tips on how to avoid them. So that in the end, you not only have the perfect ring, but also a good feeling.

1. Start your search without budget & priorities

A common problem: You drift, hopping from one shop to the next, comparing countless models without knowing what's important to you. The result: frustration, overwhelm, or, in the worst case, a bad purchase.


Tip:

To begin with, set a realistic budget and consider:

Real gold or silver?

Lab-grown diamond or zirconia?

Plain or with side stones?

What is your style?


At VIDRAGOLD , you'll find high-quality 14K gold rings with lab-created diamonds , handcrafted in Germany – and at fair prices , often lower than other suppliers. This way, you stay within your budget without compromising on quality or ethics.

2. Estimate the ring size (or ignore it at all)

A classic: You order the ring in a “standard size” because you don’t know her exact size – and it doesn’t fit when you propose.


Tip:

Use our free PDF ring template to discreetly measure one of her rings. Alternatively, we can personally help you with tips on how to discreetly find the right size. And if something doesn't fit, we offer free adjustments.

3. Paying too much attention to price and too little attention to origin

A low price is tempting – but many online shops offer supposedly fine rings that are machine-produced , untested or come from questionable sources .

And you still benefit from our best price guarantee!


Tip:

Pay attention to transparency.

At VIDRAGOLD, every ring is:

handmade in Germany

made of high-quality gold

with ethically produced lab-grown diamonds

individually made for you


You know exactly where your ring comes from – and can hand it over with a clear conscience.

4. Order too late – and get stressed

A proposal is exciting enough – it doesn't help if you realize shortly beforehand that the ring won't arrive in time or needs to be adjusted.


Tip:

Plan at least 3–4 weeks in advance, especially if you're ordering a handmade piece. This gives you enough time for questions, changes, or the perfect moment.

5. Choose the ring without reference to the person

The ring shouldn't just be beautiful—it should suit her. Blindly buying a trend can easily make a mistake.


Tip:

Observe what she wears in everyday life. Does she prefer delicate jewelry or eye-catching designs? Does she wear gold or silver? Is she more classic or modern?

6. Avoid personal advice

Ordering online doesn't mean you have to miss out on expert advice. Many people underestimate the value of good, personal guidance when buying a ring.


Tip:

Just write to us! At VIDRAGOLD, we'll advise you personally, honestly, and without obligation via email or WhatsApp. You don't have to be a professional jeweler to find the perfect ring.

Conclusion: Avoid mistakes, stay safe

Buying an engagement ring is a special moment—and should feel that way. With a little preparation, the right partner by your side, and trust in the craftsmanship, you'll not only make the right choice, but also give a gift that will last a lifetime.

Discover now:

→ View all engagement rings at VIDRAGOLD


VIDRAGOLD – Handcrafted gold engagement rings with lab-grown diamonds. Made in Germany. Made for love.

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