Your ultimate guide for a safe decision – with no surprises.
Introduction: The most common uncertainty when buying a ring? The size.
An engagement ring is more than jewelry—it's a symbol, a promise, and an emotional highlight. That makes it all the more important that it fits perfectly. But many people are faced with the question: What ring size is right—especially if it's meant to be a surprise?
In this guide, we'll show you simple methods for finding the right ring size—for the perfect moment without the stress of exchanging it. You'll also get practical tips , avoidable mistakes , and valuable insights to give you confidence.
1. The simplest method: An existing ring as a template
If your partner already wears a ring (ideally on the left ring finger), this is the easiest way.
How it works:
• Secretly grab a well-fitting ring.
• Measure the inner diameter with a ruler or caliper.
• Compare it to a ring size chart.
Tip: Pay attention to which finger the ring is worn on – the ring and middle fingers are often significantly different sizes.
2. Use a ring size template or measuring ring
We offer a ring size template for you to print out upon request or as a free download . Alternatively, you can order inexpensive ring size measuring rings online.
These tools help you easily and precisely determine the right size – ideal for secretly preparing a proposal.
3. Measure ring size without ring – with string or paper strips
Don't have a ring handy? No problem. You can measure your finger circumference with a simple strip of paper or a thin piece of string:
Here's how:
1. Wrap the strip tightly around your finger (not too tight).
2. Mark the spot where the paper overlaps.
3. Measure the length up to the mark – this is the circumference.
4. Compare the circumference with a ring size chart.
Note: This method is a little less accurate – if you are unsure, go half a size larger.
4. Involve friends or family (if it's supposed to be a surprise)
If you are preparing the application secretly, a trusted person can help you:
• Maybe someone secretly measured a ring?
• Or do you know the clothing size that can be used to estimate the ring size?
Rule of thumb: For delicate hands, the ring size is usually between 48-52, for average hands between 53-57.
5. What should you do if you are still unsure?
At VIDRAGOLD, we want your proposal to be perfect—and the ring to fit perfectly. That's why we offer:
• Free ring size advice – via email, please contact us!
• Size adjustment possible after application – uncomplicated & fast
What you should keep in mind when measuring your ring size:
• Fingers are often slightly thicker in the evening than in the morning
• Temperature plays a role: Fingers shrink in cold weather
• The ring should be comfortable to put on and take off – without being too loose
Conclusion: With a little preparation, the ring fits like a glove
Finding the right ring size isn't rocket science—especially with the right tools. Whether you're secretly planning your proposal or ordering together, our tips will minimize the risk and maximize the joy of opening the ring box.
Bonus: Your free ring size template
Download our free PDF ring size template now !
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